Well, we finally made it to #1. My two-and-a-half-month journey finally comes to an end. For those closest to me, it was a foregone conclusion as to which would be my favorite Springsteen song. As you can tell from some of my other top 10 favorite songs, like Jersey Girl, Kingdom Of Days, and Queen Of The Supermarket, songs with emotional lyrics make a huge impact on me. Whether the lyrics put me in the shoes of a sympathetic character or they remind me of an experience in my past, Bruce can transport me to another time or another place like no other artist. I have heard people say that “Springsteen’s music serves as the soundtrack of my life” so often that it has become a cliché. But sayings become clichés because they are true.
Many of the tragic characters in Springsteen’s songs are fictional. But the teenage couple in The River were drawn from his real-life experience. Bruce’s sister Ginny became pregnant at the age of 18 and quickly married her child’s father, Mickey, who took a construction job to support his family. Nearly every detail in the song is like a punch to the gut: a joyless wedding, a young man who cannot provide, a woman who “acts like she don’t care.” It gets so bad that they can’t even find joy in their memories of the times when they used to dream about the future. Springsteen took their story of struggle and turned it into a moving working-class lament, a slow ballad with a mournful harmonica part that starts to sound like a funeral requiem as the song ends.
“Is a dream a lie if it don’t come true, or is it something worse?”
The River became a centerpiece of shows on some of Springsteen’s tours. On the Born In The U.S.A. Tour, it was often preceded by a long, intense story from from Bruce about his battles with his father growing up, that would sometimes conclude positively and sometimes not. The silence after the story would then be interrupted by the start of the harmonica part. One such story and performance, that also touched on the Vietnam War, was included on the Live/1975-85 boxed set. On other tours, Bruce would present slightly different arrangements. Regardless of the arrangement, however, The River has proven to be my great white whale, ever-elusive, having never experienced a performance live in concert. I hope someday soon to be able to break up the shut out and hear the song live and in person…I may just cry… For now, I’ll just have to rely on my buddy Ken to play it on his acoustic guitar.
Here is a video of The River from Paris, France, June 29, 1985: